There are numerous controversial issues surrounding parenting; one of them being letting your kids sleep with you. I confess. . .if Caden makes a peep during the night, I let him sleep with us. I let him sleep with us not only because I miss him during the day, but I teach high school students and I know that in twelve short years (or maybe even sooner) he will be embarrassed to be in the same room as me. I want to sneak as many cuddles in as I can before then.